It’s Saturday morning and Mary’s friends are having their weekly book study at her house. This season they’re reading Power Over Pornography by Brian Brandenburg. The study is going well until Michele starts crying. The women are concerned about this and ask her why she’s crying.
” I think my son Michael is engaging in sexual stuff at night”, Michele Says.
“What do you mean by Sexual stuff, like pornography or chatting with a girl?”, Lindsey asks.
“Porn, I think my son is watching porn and I don’t know what to do”, She says.
“You should look into getting Covenant Eyes involved”, Mary suggests.
Every parent wants what’s best for their child. You want to protect them from all the junk in the world. There’s so much going on in the world right now and so much to worry about as a parent.
Mary uses Covenant eyes to filter online sites and makes sure her children don’t come across any content meant for mature audience. With Covenant eyes, she has one less thing to worry about.
It also creates internet accountability for your spouse or for that one friend who struggles with pornography addiction.
Covenant eyes shows you how to protect your family from internet dangers and supports the power to overcome pornography’s deep deception.
How does it work?
Covenant eyes sends accountability reports to accountability partners/parents that leads to meaningful conversations. This helps the user get freedom at the end. Reports are used to better understand any red flag sites or areas where the user needs help with.
Protect all your devices
They protect a wide range of devices from Windows, MacOS, iOS, Android and Kindle fire that your family owns.
This is an optional filter which parents can use to block or allow certain sites. They use an age based filter outlined below to better protect their Children.
Within Covenant eyes, you get to have a community where you can connect with other people passionate about the same things as you are. You get instant help through the community by getting answers to questions or concerns you may be having. You also get to share ideas and give feedback to the rest of the community members.
How do they rate and understand the Internet?
Covenant eyes rates according to the six age based rating below:
When you set up an account, you as the account administrator/filter guardian can choose what content to filter and what content you should allow. You get to Choose what is good for your kids and what’s not. The account administrator is responsible for adding users as well.
As a guardian:
- You set a time or day to block a site from a user.
- Understand overrides: This is filter “override” rights. It’s helpful for adults who use the Filter to prevent certain content from randomly popping up, but who also don’t want to have to contact the accountability partner every time they want to view a specific page.
- “Allow list” only. This is when you don’t see a need to have a “block list”. Guardian/accountability partners ensure all sites are blocked except the ones on the “allow list”.
- Add websites to the user’s allow and block list. The difference between this task and the one above is that this task will involve you having a “blocked list” and an “allow list”. The one above requires you to only have an “allow list” while the rest is automatically blocked.
Questions Frequently asked:
How do I prevent an accountability user from uninstalling Covenant eyes from his Gadget?
As the account administrator, you are issued with an uninstall code that notifies you when/if someone uninstalled it. Only you can uninstall it use the code.
As an accountability user how do I help my accountability partner?
Make your goals and expectations clear. Tell them about any sites they should block, Keep communicating open and frequent. Approach your partner anytime when you feel tempted and take charge of situations
As a parent, how do I hold my kids accountable?
Explain why covenant eyes is important for them. Let them know that you’re not using it to keep them in check but that it’s for their own good and they ultimately need it. While you’re at it, explain the dangers of the internet to them.
Talk with your kids about their accountability reports.
Keep checking exactly what it is that they’re engaging in. Use the reports to visit the sites they’re visiting. This does not make you a stalker 🙂 but it helps you have a meaningful conversation with them. So that it doesn’t feel like you’re spying on them, explain the importance of Covenant eyes to them and at end they will be the ones asking to see the reports with you. Lastly, be an example to them.
Tips for Accountability Partners on holding friends accountable
Have some time to walk your friend through the accountability report. Praise them when they’re doing well and encourage them during tough times. Ensure you get more details on any red flags you noticed on the reports.
Partners can adjust how often they want to get accountability reports.
Does Covenant eyes generate reports if my browser is on private browsing?
Yes they can still generate the reports. However, Covenant eyes does not read your e-mails or see your banking information. Your private information stays private.
Monthly Subscription (Covenant eyes offers a 30-day money back guarantee in the event that you’re not satisfied with their program)
For family account, it’s free to add any additional user but for personal account, the first Accountability User is $11.99/mo., and each additional Accountability User is $2.
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The best solution to pornography is stopping it before it starts. Feel free to download ““Parenting the Internet generation” and “Your Brain on Porn” free E-book. It gives you more insight on having meaningful/honest conversations about the dangers found in the internet world with your children.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. If you have any questions or comments, kindly leave them below and I’ll get right back to you 🙂
Have a great Porn free day 🙂